- Whose Fault? - Whose fault is it when bad things happen to you? Who can you point the finger at pin the blame on?
Sarai was unfortunate enough not to have ever had children even though she desperately wanted them. In this conversation with her husband, she blames God for her misfortune, saying that God has kept her from having children.
The Bible doesn't say that God had anything to do with Sarai's inability to conceive. It may have just been a bad thing that happened to her. But instead of accepting her situation for the natural condition it was, she pointed the finger at God.
When she decided - note that God didn't give her this idea - to have Abram sleep with Hagar, she was jealous of the resulting pregnancy and blamed Abram, saying he was responsible for the situation.
When she mistreated Hagar, she was responsible for Hagar running away.
In all of these instances, Sarai tried to blame someone for her problems instead of simply accepting them and dealing with them maturely.
We all have problems. Bad things happen to us. But at no time is God the source of those bad things happening. God loves us and only wishes to bless us. In fact, if Sarai would have been patient, she would have found God blessing her with her own child soon enough.
God does not cause bad things to happen to us. But if we will be patient and conduct ourselves maturely instead of blaming Him and others for our misfortunes, He will eventually help us.
What situations can you recall God helping you with? Can you have faith enough to know that He's going to do it again?
- The God Who Sees Me - Hagar found herself in a desperate situation. She was taken advantage of, then mistreated, and finally forced to flee. She had taken more than she could handle.
And then God finds her. God comes to her and speaks to her and blesses her. Afterward, she acknowledges that God is the one who sees her.
Do you know that God sees you too? No matter what you're going through, God sees it, and He sees you. Even now, He is coming to you, speaking to you, telling you that He cares for you and wants to bless you. Can you hear it? Listen to His voice speaking into your heart. Listen for His Spirit speaking to your spirit. Let His words take shape in your mind.
He sees you. He knows you. He loves you. He cares about you and He will bless you.